Partner Questions

Or, questions to ask yourself about whoever is the most important person in your life.   This could be:
Servant/Master
Husband/Wife
Child/Parent
Friend/Friend
Lover/Lover
Whoever it is for you.

1.	What have you done that's made this person the angriest at you?
2.	What have you done that's pleased them the most?
3.	What could you do that would anger them the most?
4.	What could you do that would please them the most?
5.	What have they done that's made you the angriest?  The most pleased?
6.	Again, what could they do that would most anger or please you?
7.	Why is this person the most important to you (other than the obvious dutiful relationships, i.e. one's spouse may or may not be the person someone is closest to.  If that happens to be so, why?)
8.	What is this person's greatest fault?  How do you feel about it?
9.	What is your greatest fault?  How do you feel about it?
10.	What do you think they think is your greatest fault?  How do you think they feel about it?
11.	What do you think they think is their greatest fault?  How do you think they feel about it?
12.	Consider all the above, but with regard to your virtues.
13.	If you had any choice in establishing this relationship, why are you in it?
14.	How much time do you spend together?
15.	What do you do when you are together?
16.	What do you do when you are apart?  Are you ever apart?
17.	Do you share any vices?  Any hobbies?  Any great loves or desires?  Special tastes?
18.	What is the biggest secret that you share?

19.	What is the biggest secret that you have from this person?
20.	What is the biggest secret that they think they have from you?
21.	What do you think they feel is the biggest secret you have that they know about?
22.	Do you like each other's friends?
23.	Do you like each other's relatives?
24.	Do you like each other's vocation, if any?
25.	Who is the dominant person in the relationship?
26.	Who appears to be the dominant person in the relationship?
27.	a.	Do you trust this person?
	b.	How far would you trust this person?
	c.	Is there any way in which you might not trust this person?
28.	Of the two of you, who is the most responsible?  Who do you think is the most responsible?  Who do they think is the most responsible?
29.	Ask the same questions as in #28, as to honour and honesty.
30.	What do you most like about one another?
31.	What do you each think the other most likes about you?
32.	What do you most dislike about one another?
33.	What do you each think the other most dislikes about you?
34.	Do you agree on religion?  On politics?  Do you know what each other actually thinks about either?  Does it matter to the relationship?
35.	For whom is the relationship more important, if either?
36.	Who is more willing to keep the peace, if either?
37.	Is there anything that you violently disagree about?
38.	Is there anything you are passionate in agreeing on?
39.	Who is better with money, and practical matters?
40.	Who thinks they are better with money, and practical matters?